Be nice . . . to yourself
. . . buy yourself some beautifully gorgeous flowers! Be it an expensive bouquet or just a single bud. Flowers, of any kind & species, make me happy. I should do this more often and make it a habit, perhaps a weekly or bi-monthly thing. Why don't you get some flowers for your friend, or a colleague, for no reason? Make it a surprise! I honestly don't thing anyone would reject them.
One thing I like about living in Shanghai, is how well their gardens & parks are kept. No matter what season it is, this is my fourth winter here, there are always flowers blooming all over the city. Winters can be dull but by putting some colour in by using pots of flowers in the streets or hanging them from the windows, work every time. Here are a few of my favourite flower shops in a beautiful part of Shanghai, Former French Concession.